Nakina begins a new chapter in her training journey as we work to lower her stress and help her discover a greater sense of calm..

🐾 Looking for Calm

Nakina doesn’t rest or sleep enough. She is always on alert, and that constant state of vigilance contributes to her anxiety. Her trainer and I agreed on Tuesday that it was time to explore medication as another tool to help her.

She went to the vet on Wednesday and was started on ClomiCalm. We are already seeing some minor improvements, but we know it can take several weeks — potentially up to two months — to see the full effects. For now, we are looking for small changes and trying to give her the time she needs.

Training

Our private session on Tuesday made it clear again that Nakina’s stress level is too high when she is separated from me or even thinks I might leave the room. This continues to be one of our biggest challenges.

DIn Novice Obedience class, though, she did wonderfully. It is always encouraging to see her able to focus and work when she is comfortable.

She also did great at the vet until we went into the exam room, which was understandable given how stressful that environment can be for dogs. I was especially grateful that the veterinarian was willing to listen to what I had to say and watch the videos I had taken of Nakina stressing when I leave her. Being able to show the vet what we are seeing at home helped her understand what Nakina is experiencing and how she could help.

After we got home from the appointment and gave Nakina her first dose of medication, she slept for most of the rest of the day. It was actually wonderful to see her finally get some much-needed rest.

Thursday’s Rally class was another good example of the difference between working with me and being separated from me. She did great in the ring, but when I left her in her crate while I walked the course, she barked the entire time.

Still, I’m glad we are taking another step forward in our effort to bring her overall stress levels down.

Socialization

On Sunday, before starting the medication, we left Nakina alone for about an hour while watching her on the cameras. For the first 30 minutes, she barked, howled, and cried. After that, she finally lay down next to the gate. I don't think she was actually relaxed or resting. It seemed more like she had simply reached the point of exhaustion.

On Thursday, after Rally class, we left her again to see whether we noticed any difference. This time, she barked and howled occasionally for about 20 minutes before settling. That was an improvement, although it is far too early to know whether the medication made the difference. We will continue watching, learning, and giving her time.

What's Next

• Emergency Stop & Hand Targeting — reintroduce and build consistency
• Down vs. settle — continue creating a clear distinction
• Recall — continue on leash in more distracting environments
• Grooming — begin grooming desensitization on the table
• Continue elevator desensitization

This isn't about expecting Nakina to suddenly change. It is about helping her feel safe enough and comfortable enough that she can learn to relax. I’m happy to be helping my best friend be more comfortable in life.